One of the most popular BDSM relationships is the DaddyDom/little girl dynamic (DD/lg). For some it can just be something they role-play with, but for others like myself it is their identity. There are many benefits to ageplay for both the Dominant and Submissive.
What exactly is BDSM ageplay?
It involves treating the Sub like they are a certain age, usually younger, anywhere from toddler to teenager. In turn the sub treats their Dom like their Daddy. He takes on the paternal role of protector and caregiver, and administers discipline when needed. The sub becomes his “Little” and relies on him emotionally, financially, and sexually.
Ageplay is NOT pedophilia. Pedophillia is having sexual feelings towards children, and a sub is a consenting adult. A DaddyDom wants to be with HIS little girl, not little girls in general.
Why is the DD/lg relationship so fulfilling?
It satisfies both individuals on many levels:
Men are naturally attracted to youth and innocence and having a Little meets that need continuously. They will also have someone rely and dote on them, and counting on them to “fix it” when things get hard. Littles are constantly seeking the praise and attention of their Daddy and will do their best to please him. A DD also gets the satisfaction of disciplining his Baby Girl when she misbehaves in any way he desires. And she will come to him with her sexual needs as he knows how best to please her.
In a symbiotic way, what makes the Daddy happy fullfills the Little’s needs and vice versa. She will be made to feel eternally youthful and beautiful, and he will spoil her and cherish her. Subs that choose this relationship are usually relatively fragile emotionally, and having a supportive, paternal figure is very soothing. Being told you’re a “good girl” makes a sub feel extremely content. Knowing they make their Daddy happy gives them immense reassurance.
How to incorporate ageplay
Dress the part
The DaddyDom ultimately chooses what his little girl wears but short skirts, shorts, having hair in braids/pigtails is usual protocol. School girl outfits are very popular, and Brazilian waxes give the look and feel of a little girl.
Talk the talk
Littles should refer to their Dom as Daddy, and always ask them for permission, just like a dependent child would. DDs need to call their Littles by appropriate names like Baby Girl, and conversations and lectures are more enjoyable when she’s told to sit on his lap.
Embrace the role
DD/lg revolves around wanting to please and fearing disapproval so rewards and punishments are vital. Even little pats on the head mean a lot, and spankings are a must. Keeping the attitude of “Daddy knows best” will deepen intimacy. Also age appropriate activities like coloring and keeping a journal can help a sub feel more “little.”
Ageplay can become the basis for a healthy BDSM relationship, and bring even more happiness to both the Dom and his sub. 🖤
Are you a Daddy or a Little? What are your reasons for the relationship? Let us know in the comments.